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Definition of beeing RicH

Boss : " What's the definition of being Rich for you?"
Me : " hhmm..... its about being grateful and feeling enough of what you have now "

And he agree...

..ObLivioUs...

One of the series around 80's-90's that I remember because of the ridiculous hair ... haha thats what I think back then... and still... Not trying to cheapen the movie, I like this movie too (but not one of my favorite).. Just cant stand the hair..
So, today I found this picture while blog browsing... And just realize now... that not only the hair is ridiculous ... the.. hmm..whatever you want to call it, I prefer body shape, is also ultra- goofy...

I've grown and I see things differently, this outfit makes me laugh when I see it the first time again ... I just cant take my eyes from the hip..
okay.. so they are an alienated human, but whats with the lines on their hip?.. is it a detachable costumes... and for Wilykit and Wilikat... please..., cud somebody put some clothes on them... If I had a 4 or 5 year old, I probably wouldn't let them to watch this movie.. cant stand if they try to imitate them.. LOL..
But, when I try to google the image.. this is what I found

Yaayy... the whole family heroes with clothes...
but they're not originally comes in clothes right?... they look like the first picture when they come right? I forgot... how come... goodness gracious!!

I think I need to take one of these... for my memory enhancer... gosh I'm getting O L D... a bit shame to say that...

..ChooSe a PareNt... I DoNt ThInk So..

"The one thing that you nor anyone will never get to choose is your parents"

I forgot where I heard or maybe read this verse but it keep hangin around my head. It just wont go away, it pops out almost everyday... I guess I cant get rid of it because I cannot find the 'advantage' in it. For me every quotes or verse will always had a meaning and advantage. Well, I'm the type of person who loves wise words, verses and proverbs because it helps in many ways. But this one.... hhmmm...

Today, when me and my family were on our way to meet my friend, we use a motor bike, and my eldest daughter get to sit on front. It was on the afternoon and almost dark. Again, she forgot to zip her coat, she always forgot to do it. And I dont know why but my husband was very mad at her and yelled at her. She was shocked. Of course he got the point, but its not appropriate. Than, again this verse pops out, only this time it ring the bell. Now I know why I never get the 'advantage' in it, its because I never see it from the parent side. Its like punch in the head, now that I'm a parent, it makes me think 'what kind of parent I have been??' and will learn not to blame them in any way because...poor them, they didn't get to choose....

Well I hope, someday if my daughters heard this verse they didn't say 'why that sound like a very bad news??!! can we just, like, roll it all over again' ....

cHeRisH

Not at my best point of life, am struggling with a lot of things right now...
Be thankful and grateful somehow makes me feel better


Thank YOU God for...

1. my 2 healthy daughter, they always brighten up my cloudy days

2. me lovely hubby that keep on hangin' there.. I know its tough baby but we'll be just fine..

3. my brothers... for the music and the doodles... always makes me smile..

4. Dad.. for keeping him self healthy.. I still need you :)

5. Mom.. cherished her in every way I guess..

6. my job, have to admit there is bittersweet form of cherishing here.. lol

7. my friends.. the refugee camp

8. my big family for the love and support

Wew... quite a lot to be thankful...

Bullying..

On Oprah today, they discuss about bullying, and they said that telling your kids to "ignore them" isn't going to work anymore. We must teach them to protect them selves and said to the other kid that they had enough and didn't want to be bullied anymore with a firm look and voice. Of course this is just not it, theres a lot of efforts that follows.
There were times when my 7 year old told me that there are some friends at school, especially the older kids would like to mock her with bad words or teased her and her friends at the school bus. I realize that this was a kind of bullying, but at that time I always tell her to ignore them and they will eventually stop teasing. But, this show opened my mind. Telling such things will not work anymore...

Its About Taking Big Steps

Well I'm not going to talk about my youngest daughter who recently are learning to walk faster and jump here and there. I'm talking about when you finally end up in a spot in your life when you must whether you like it or not take big step to make a change for a better living, to thrive for your own sake or others. When I surf the net for BIG STEPS picture, came along a lot of picture showing a newly established business, couples getting married, or even a child or grown ups who literally is taking a big steps.

As a closer loop, a friend of mine who is finally taking a big step by adopting a child after a long years of waiting of their own, or a cousin who is finally takes a big steps to get married with our distant relatives for an arrange marriage.Whatever the cause and motives nor the aims and purposes, its tough and its not easy. It took courage, serious and repetitive thoughts it wouldn't be a BIG one if it doesn't. Because on some cases it could pull you out of your comfort zone or at least the zone that you "think" its comforting enough, but you'll never know until you have taken it.

The results, well, only the decision maker could feel the greatest impact. But one had to make sure that its the best and he/she deserves the result. If its for others sake, you must be sincere or you will regret it. But for me, there's no such things like that, every big step we made for others sake, in a way will also do something for ourselves eventually.

The most important thing is to never be afraid, be true to your self and follow you heart...

“Don't be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated; you can't cross a chasm in two small jumps.”

David Lloyd George quotes (British Prime Minister. 1863-1945)

I hope its not a boring post...