Well I'm not going to talk about my youngest daughter who recently are learning to walk faster and jump here and there. I'm talking about when you finally end up in a spot in your life when you must whether you like it or not take big step to make a change for a better living, to thrive for your own sake or others. When I surf the net for BIG STEPS picture, came along a lot of picture showing a newly established business, couples getting married, or even a child or grown ups who literally is taking a big steps.
As a closer loop, a friend of mine who is finally taking a big step by adopting a child after a long years of waiting of their own, or a cousin who is finally takes a big steps to get married with our distant relatives for an arrange marriage.Whatever the cause and motives nor the aims and purposes, its tough and its not easy. It took courage, serious and repetitive thoughts it wouldn't be a BIG one if it doesn't. Because on some cases it could pull you out of your comfort zone or at least the zone that you "think" its comforting enough, but you'll never know until you have taken it.
The results, well, only the decision maker could feel the greatest impact. But one had to make sure that its the best and he/she deserves the result. If its for others sake, you must be sincere or you will regret it. But for me, there's no such things like that, every big step we made for others sake, in a way will also do something for ourselves eventually.
As a closer loop, a friend of mine who is finally taking a big step by adopting a child after a long years of waiting of their own, or a cousin who is finally takes a big steps to get married with our distant relatives for an arrange marriage.Whatever the cause and motives nor the aims and purposes, its tough and its not easy. It took courage, serious and repetitive thoughts it wouldn't be a BIG one if it doesn't. Because on some cases it could pull you out of your comfort zone or at least the zone that you "think" its comforting enough, but you'll never know until you have taken it.
The results, well, only the decision maker could feel the greatest impact. But one had to make sure that its the best and he/she deserves the result. If its for others sake, you must be sincere or you will regret it. But for me, there's no such things like that, every big step we made for others sake, in a way will also do something for ourselves eventually.
The most important thing is to never be afraid, be true to your self and follow you heart...
“Don't be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated; you can't cross a chasm in two small jumps.”
David Lloyd George quotes (British Prime Minister. 1863-1945)
I hope its not a boring post...
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